Would It Kill You to Talk for an Hour About DEATH? – Feb 27

 
Would It Kill You to Talk for an Hour About DEATH?
 
Socratic Conversation with Ron Gross

Gottesman Libraries, Teachers College

525 West 120th St., 2nd Floor Conversation Area

(bet. Broadway and Amsterdam Ave.  North side of 120th Street.)
               (#1 train to 116th St.)
 
Thursday, Feb. 27th,  4:00 sharp – 5:15 pm

Please bring a photo ID required for entry to the building.
There will be a display of relevant books.
Light refreshments will be available.
      Coffee and other beverages available downstairs as you enter the building.
We are learning to talk about death more freely, frankly —  and life-affirmingly!    Come join the movement to demystify this taboo subject.   It can be a significant step in learning how to live.
 
Throughout the country, Americans are attending Death Cafes, Death Dinners, and Death Salons (featured on the front page of  The New York Times).   A Showtime documentary series, Time of Death, focuses on “real people face to face with their own mortality.”  A new book, The Death Class: A True Story About Life, reports that there’s a 3-year waiting list to enroll in this offering at  Kean University.
 
Join us to talk about this traditionally taboo topic, in healthy terms. 
 
Among the topics we’ll discuss:
 
** Does your awareness of your mortality affect the way you live
     your life?   Should it?    How?
 
** What is one of your favorite novels, movies, TV shows, plays,
     musical works, or other art that deals with Death?
 
** Do you feel that you’ve thought enough about mortality, to sort    
     out your ideas and feelings in ways that are satisfying to you?
 
** What happens after death?  Do you feel that you are still  
     somehow in contact with some people you have lost?
 
** Do you have any strong convictions about what you would like 
to happen at the end of your life?  Should we have The Pill?

“The Promise of a Pencil” – Mar 20

Presenting a CNY “TalkAbout”…

Barnes and Noble at Union Square
33 E 17th, NYC
Thursday, Mar 20, 7pm

A Lecture by Adam Braun, “The Promise of a Pencil: How Ordinary People can Accomplish Extraordinary Things.”

Pencils of Promise Guatemala May 2011

Adam Braun is the Founder of Pencils of Promise, an award-winning nonprofit organization that has built more than 150 schools across Africa, Asia and Latin America and delivered over 12 million educational hours in its first four years. PoP was founded with just $25 using Braun’s unique “For-Purpose” approach to blending nonprofit idealism with for-profit business principles. In 2012, he was named to the Forbes 30 Under 30 List.

Braun began his career in finance, until he met a young boy begging on the streets and asked him what he wanted most in the world. The answer- “A pencil.” He then traveled through 50+ countries to focus on educational systems and eventually left a dream job at Bain & Company to launch Pencils of Promise.

Braun was selected as one of the first ten World Economic Forum Global Shapers and has been featured at the United Nations, Clinton Global Initiative, Google Zeitgeist, Mashable’s Innovation Index and Wired Magazine’s 2012 Smart List of 50 People Changing the World.

This is a free lecture. We will convene at a local café after the event to discuss Braun’s ideas.

http://www.meetup.com/Conversations-New-York/events/163169482/

About the Moderator:  Laurence Mailaender works in the technology industry, doing research aimed at improving wireless systems. He has a PhD in Electrical Engineering, and spent 12 years as a researcher in Bell Labs. Currently he develops advanced communication and GPS-geolocation systems for customers in various agencies of the U.S. Government.

Lecture & Talk-About: “Success in America” with Amy Chua “Tiger Mom” & Jed Rubenfeld – Feb 4

Join “Conversations New York” (CNY) at this Lecture & Talk-About afterwards.  Amy Chua, “Tiger Mom” & Jed Rubenfeld “Success in America.”  To RSVP, learn more about the event, and find payment information, visit 92nd Street and Y:   (Attendance at the lecture is not required to participate in the conversation afterwards. )

Please RSVP at CNY meetup.  Thank you.  http://www.meetup.com/Conversations-New-York/events/161167482/

Lecture:  “Mormons have recently risen to astonishing business success. Cubans in Miami climbed from poverty to prosperity in a generation. Nigerians earn doctorates at stunningly high rates. Indian and Chinese Americans have much higher incomes than other Americans; Jews may have the highest of all. Husband-and-wife team Amy Chua (author of Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother) and Jed Rubenfeld—both Yale professors—discuss their new book, The Triple Package, and expose the three unlikely traits that explain the rise and fall of cultural groups in America, in a talk that could transform the way you think about success and achievement.”

Talk-About:  For those who wish to further discuss this topic after the event, CNY will host a Talk-About.  Talk-Abouts are a way to continue the conversation, find out what others thought about the event, and share perspectives.  Please find Yen (see member profile picture) after the event in the lobby if you wish to join us.  The Talk-About will be held in a coffee shop or restaurant nearby and will be free.  Yen will moderate the session, and it will be structured with questions to get the conversation going, but will lean towards free-flowing discussion.   Thank you.

Proposed Agenda 
7:30 pm  –  Meet in 92Y lobby and introductions.

9:45 pm   –  Meet again at the 92Y lobby and we will walk across the street to “Lex Restaurant” where I have reservations under the name “Yen.” 1370 Lexington Ave. (between 90th & 91st).

Introductions
Success in America – What are the common traits?

About the Moderator:  Yen is a naturalize American citizen.  He was born in Taiwan, Republic of China, but came to the US as an Argentinian citizen.  While growing up, he saw his parents build several small businesses with little to no formal education.  Yen is a parent of two sons and a graduate of the US Air Force Academy with a BS in Applied Physics but worked mainly in aviation and in national crisis response as a supervisor, trainer, and examiner in the public and private sectors.  Currently, he is a manager at Lyhun Realty

About the Founder:  Ron Gross is the founder of “Conversations New York.” He’s been organizing exciting, important CONVERSATIONS for 20 years, and currently holds them regularly on the Columbia University campus and elsewhere through the city. He’s the author of 23 books on LIFELONG LEARNING. He was recently honored for lifetime achievement in the field by the International Society for Self-Directed Learning. The late Buckminster Fuller said of Ron’s work: “If humanity is to pass safely through its present crisis on earth, it will be because a majority of individuals are now doing their own thinking. Ronald Gross’ work has pioneered in improving the climate for such thinking in the United States.”

Talk-About at the New Museum: “Spaceship Module” – Feb 27

CNY Talk-About at the

New Museum: “Spaceship Module”

Thursday, Feb 27, 2014

7 pm

The New Museum

235 Bowery (near Prince St.)

RSVP at http://www.meetup.com/Conversations-New-York/events/163166372/

“Report on the Construction of a Spaceship Module”

Spaceship

For this special exhibit, the fifth floor of the New Museum will be transformed to resemble the inside of a futuristic “spaceship” (based on a Czech sci-fi film from 1963!), and will feature a variety of art (video, print, sculpture, installation) from artists based in Eastern Europe.

“Report on the Construction of a Spaceship Module” offers an allegory of “anthropological science fiction,” where the exhibition space becomes an estranged and exciting universe that dramatizes the cross-cultural translation involved in the presentation of art. The unique model evokes the challenges that contemporary artists experience in exhibiting works, or that curators come across in organizing exhibitions that stitch together diverse artworks, selected across generation, cultural context, personal narratives, and time.”

We will meet in the lobby at 7 pm. The New Museum is “suggested donation” on Thursdays. We will tour the exhibit, then reconvene at a nearby café to discuss and interpret what we have seen.

About the Moderator:  Laurence Mailaender works in the technology industry, doing research aimed at improving wireless systems. He has a PhD in Electrical Engineering, and spent 12 years as a researcher in Bell Labs. Currently he develops advanced communication and GPS-geolocation systems for customers in various agencies of the U.S. Government.

TalkAbout: “Divorce Corp.” – Jan 10

“For roughly 50% of American families divorce is an unpleasant fact of life. Dealing with divorce and its effects destroys lives and bankrupts individuals every day. Family law, which barely existed for most of our country’s history, has morphed into a gigantic industry over the past several decades. These facts peaked our interest, but when we began making our documentary film in 2011 we had no idea we were about to uncover the last vestige of lawlessness in America. Family courts are a dark corner of the judicial system where fiefdoms and tyrants still thrive, where the supreme law of the land is routinely ignored, where children are taken hostage for profit, and where lives are destroyed as a matter of course. We knew we had to shine a light on these injustices. We hope that our movie and book do just that and point the way to a better path.”  http://divorcecorp.com/ 

View the trailer:  

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Friday,  January 10, 2014, 6:30 PM, Union Square
Please RSVP Conversations New York meetup and purchase tickets in advance through fandango.com for the AMC Loews Village 7 Friday 7pm showing to ensure a seat.  Thank you.

 

Steven Mandis on “What Happened to Goldman Sachs: An Insiders’s Story” – Dec 13

“Steven Mandis on What Happened to Goldman Sachs:  An Insiders’s Story of Organizational Drift and its Unintended Consequences.”

This lecture is offered by the Museum of American Finance.  An audience Q/A follows the lecture and after the Q/A, we will have a “TalkAbout” on what we heard in the atrium next door, 60 Wall St.

Kindly RSVP at http://www.meetup.com/Conversations-New-York/events/154126402/

Agenda
12 pm       Meet at inside entrance of  Museum of American Finance
1:30 pm   Meet at 60 Wall St. Atrium for “TalkAbout”

We will meet at the museum entrance at noon.  The discounted admissions fee is $5 (normally $8).  The fee includes access to the museum.  http://www.moaf.org/index  (Attendees are welcome to tour the museum on their own before or after the TalkAbout. Bring your own lunch because we are permitted to eat lunch during the lecture as this is one of the museum’s “Lunch and Learn Series”.)

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60 Wall St. Atirium

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Money Talks: Profits Before Patient Safety – Sep 11

Money Talks – Profits Before Patient Safety
(Hosted by DOCUMENTARY WATCHERS & CNY)

Wednesday, September 11, 2013

6:30 PM to 9:15 PM, Kips Bay, New York

Please RSVP at Conversations New York http://www.meetup.com/Conversations-New-York/events/116947002/ and at Documentary Watchers. http://www.meetup.com/documentary/events/129399402 Thank you.

Dr. Jerome Hoffman, UCLA Medical School, “The relationship between physicians and the drug industry…begins the day you hit medical school…establishing relationship, establishing good feelings, and a dependency, and a sense of entitlement, that I work really really hard and no one is else is really nice to me, but these guys are really nice to me, and at the same time the notion that we are all in
this together…We are all on the same side. The side fighting against disease.”

Jeanne Lenzer, Investigative Medical Journalist, “…doctors started to telling me these stories about drug and therapies that they were prescribing,…they were horrified…they would find out that these therapies, one after another was actually causing more harm than good…in some instances killing patients…increasingly, of course, it shows pharmaceutical influence.”

Join us for food, drinks, and discussion.
Short social before start
Greet old friends and meet new ones.

6:30pm Social
6:45 Showing
7:45 Small group and large group discussions
9:15+ Continue discussion on your own.

Money Talks: Profits Before Patient Safety – The Film Drug Companies Don’t Want You to See

Money Talks exposes the questionable tactics that big drug companies use to make record profits by playing with the safety of our family’s health care. Using misleading advertising, attractive drug reps who wine and dine doctors and other unethical practices, the drug industry makes billions of dollars every year selling us unsafe, unnecessary and overpriced drugs.

There are over 80,000 pharmaceutical sales people employed in the pharmaceutical industry in the United States alone. My understanding is that that is about 1 for every 4 doctors. Their job is to sell drugs. Their job is not to educate doctors. Their job is not to provide medical information. They have one job and one job only: to push their product particularly against other competing products. Doctors should not trust them to give them unbiased and accurate information about their drugs, and frankly, doctors shouldn’t let them in their offices.

If you want to protect the people you love from their dangerous practices that compromise the safety and quality of our health care, Money Talks is a must-see film.

RESOURCE:

Consumer Reports
Best Buy Drugs
http://www.consumerreports.org/health/best-buy-drugs/index.htm

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Socratic Conversation & CNY Steering Committee Meeting — July 25

How important is SINCERITY?

Socratic Conversation with Ron Gross
Gottesman Library, Teachers College, Columbia University
525 West 120th St. — 2nd floor

(bet. Broadway and Amsterdam Ave. North side of 120th Street.) (#1 train to 116th St.)
Please bring a photo ID required for entry to the building.
Thursday, July 25, 3:45 – 5:15 pm

RSVP at http://www.meetup.com/Conversations-New-York/events/127608632/

Followed by CNY Steering Committee at 5:30

RSVP at http://www.meetup.com/Conversations-New-York/events/127697682/

Are YOU Sincere? With Whom? When? How? Why?

What Does It Mean? How Can You Tell?
What Role Should Sincerity Play in…
Relationships?
Professional Life?
Politics?
Art?

Why Is It Valuable? Or Is It Overrated?

There will be a display of relevant books.

Light refreshments will be available.
Coffee and other beverages available downstairs as you enter the building.

OPTIONAL SUGGESTED READING: Sincerity: How a Moral Ideal Born 500
Years Ago Inspired Religious Wars, Modern Art, Hipster Chic, and the

Curious Notion That We All Have Something to Say (No Matter How Dull),
by R. Jay Magill Jr.; Sincerity and Authenticity, by Lionel Trilling.

Inspired by Socrates’ famous conversations with his friends in the marketplace of 5th century Athens, we engage in spirited discussions of ideas and issues. Socrates ended his life with one of the most notable Goodbye’s in history: his famed Apology to his fellow citizens at his trial for treason.

Our Socratic Conversations range broadly and probe deeply into the
basic challenges of life. They are informed by the latest literature
for reference and follow up. While building a sense of community on
campus, these meetings enliven the intellectual atmosphere and model

dialogue and discussion as modes of inquiry. They are part of a year
long series of Socratic Conversations hosted by the Gottesman
Libraries, and are conducted by Ron Gross, author of Socrates Way
(www.socratesway.com/join.html) and co-chair of the University Seminar

on Innovation in Education at Columbia (www.columbiaseminar.org)

Socratic Conversation & CNY Steering Committee meeting — July 25

How important is SINCERITY?

Socratic Conversation with Ron Gross
Gottesman Library, Teachers College, Columbia University
525 West 120th St. — 2nd floor

(bet. Broadway and Amsterdam Ave. North side of 120th Street.) (#1 train to 116th St.)
Please bring a photo ID required for entry to the building.
Thursday, July 25, 3:45 – 5:15 pm

RSVP at http://www.meetup.com/Conversations-New-York/events/127608632/

Followed by CNY Steering Committee at 5:30

RSVP at http://www.meetup.com/Conversations-New-York/events/127697682/

Are YOU Sincere? With Whom? When? How? Why?

What Does It Mean? How Can You Tell?
What Role Should Sincerity Play in…
Relationships?
Professional Life?
Politics?
Art?

Why Is It Valuable? Or Is It Overrated?

There will be a display of relevant books.

Light refreshments will be available.
Coffee and other beverages available downstairs as you enter the building.

OPTIONAL SUGGESTED READING: Sincerity: How a Moral Ideal Born 500
Years Ago Inspired Religious Wars, Modern Art, Hipster Chic, and the

Curious Notion That We All Have Something to Say (No Matter How Dull),
by R. Jay Magill Jr.; Sincerity and Authenticity, by Lionel Trilling.

Inspired by Socrates’ famous conversations with his friends in the marketplace of 5th century Athens, we engage in spirited discussions of ideas and issues. Socrates ended his life with one of the most notable Goodbye’s in history: his famed Apology to his fellow citizens at his trial for treason.

Our Socratic Conversations range broadly and probe deeply into the
basic challenges of life. They are informed by the latest literature
for reference and follow up. While building a sense of community on
campus, these meetings enliven the intellectual atmosphere and model

dialogue and discussion as modes of inquiry. They are part of a year
long series of Socratic Conversations hosted by the Gottesman
Libraries, and are conducted by Ron Gross, author of Socrates Way
(www.socratesway.com/join.html) and co-chair of the University Seminar

on Innovation in Education at Columbia (www.columbiaseminar.org)

“Are You Too Self-Critical?….or, Over-Confident? Do Men and Women Differ?” – June 20

Are You Too Self-Critical?

Or, Over-Confident?

Do Men and Women Differ?Thursday, June 20, 3:45 – 5:00 pm
Gottesman Library, Teachers College, 525 West 120th St., Second Floor
(Between Broadway and Amsterdam Avenues — 116th St./Columbia University stop on the #1 train)
Hosted by Ron GrossRSVP at http://www.meetup.com/Conversations-New-York/events/122481962/

Please join us to share your experiences, reflections, and insights.

  • Do women tend to be more self-critical of themselves, and do men tend to be too self-flattering?
  • A generation after the feminist revolution, are women still, on average, less confident than men? Are there differences in the assertiveness of women in classroom situations, and in work and family roles?
  • In our professional lives, is there a confidence gap between men and women?
  • Is self-criticism undervalued in our culture, in favor of assertiveness?
  • Which causes more problems — in personal life, professional life, and political life — overconfidence or underconfidence?
  • How can we best meld self-criticism and self-promotion?

These important questions were posed recently by David Brooks, author of The Social Animal and a regular Op-Ed columnist for The New York Times, who invited his readers — and us — to respond. We will — and we’ll review the most interesting responses he has received so far.

There will be a display of relevant books. Light refreshments will be available.

Next session: Thursday, Thursday, July 11th, 3:45 pm

For more information: www.SocratesWay.com/join.html